My wife got to the stage of after 5 years of me caring for her with Azheimers got very aggressive towards me and has for the last 2 months been on a specialist mental health ward who are trying different drugs to calm her.
This is a blow for me we have been together for 50 years and the talk is that she will go into a care home after she is stablised and not come back to me.
l am allowed to visit her on the ward when l like but some of the visits are upsetting for her when l want to leave. I have been told it would be better if l didnt come so often so as not to upset her and give them more of a chance to calm her with no outside distractions.
I do look forward to the visits and l do feel guilty if l don,t visit her. she was all l had lam now on my own just waiting for the next stage of whatever is going to happen.
The visits were keeping my spirits up and helping me to plan my days. This situation could last quite a while, it cant be rushed. l am still clinging onto a slither of hope that she will be allowed to come back to me, for me to look after her.
l am finding it hard to adapting to living on my own. Any comments please. Aspire
This is a blow for me we have been together for 50 years and the talk is that she will go into a care home after she is stablised and not come back to me.
l am allowed to visit her on the ward when l like but some of the visits are upsetting for her when l want to leave. I have been told it would be better if l didnt come so often so as not to upset her and give them more of a chance to calm her with no outside distractions.
I do look forward to the visits and l do feel guilty if l don,t visit her. she was all l had lam now on my own just waiting for the next stage of whatever is going to happen.
The visits were keeping my spirits up and helping me to plan my days. This situation could last quite a while, it cant be rushed. l am still clinging onto a slither of hope that she will be allowed to come back to me, for me to look after her.
l am finding it hard to adapting to living on my own. Any comments please. Aspire