This site has been a wonderful help to me, with lots of great advice and friendly comments. I do, however, feel sometimes, that it is a sign of how well, or not, I am coping, by the amount of times I visit the site in a day. I work ( when I can) on my desktop, and every now and again, I dither in what I am doing, and come on here. I reckon in 24 hours, I might visit TP at least 10 times. As I say, I try to stay away, but I keep coming back - a sign, I am sure, that I am still not coping that well. This is the 3rd visit today!