Dad has moderate to late stage dementia (though perhaps more in late stage), is immobile and doubly incontinent. He's currently in respite and when I spoke to a clinical psychologist (for his aggressive outbursts during personal care) she was surprised that after respite he might come home, with the help of carers coming in. She said she couldn't imagine it (in a nice way, she wasn't pushy).
If someone is in the later stages, is it completely unheard of that they are at home? Sorry if that's a daft question, but she was so surprised, it surprised me.
Are there obvious reasons why it's not doable that I'm just not thinking of right now? Dad would be living with my mum, and they would be 15 minutes away from me. I am happy to cut my work part time for the next year or two so I can share the caring with mum, as well as getting carers in to help with his personal care etc. Mum would much prefer to have him at home with her (they have been married 43 years and are completely inseperable). Dad's not really very sociable, especially any more and he wouldn't be looking to have activities organised or loads of other people to chat to etc.
Are there health/welfare reasons why we should be wary in future? We just want the best for dad.
Would be grateful for any thoughts/advice on this, thank you so much!
If someone is in the later stages, is it completely unheard of that they are at home? Sorry if that's a daft question, but she was so surprised, it surprised me.
Are there obvious reasons why it's not doable that I'm just not thinking of right now? Dad would be living with my mum, and they would be 15 minutes away from me. I am happy to cut my work part time for the next year or two so I can share the caring with mum, as well as getting carers in to help with his personal care etc. Mum would much prefer to have him at home with her (they have been married 43 years and are completely inseperable). Dad's not really very sociable, especially any more and he wouldn't be looking to have activities organised or loads of other people to chat to etc.
Are there health/welfare reasons why we should be wary in future? We just want the best for dad.
Would be grateful for any thoughts/advice on this, thank you so much!