Please before I start, I don't expect any replies. I have just about had enough of my 89 year old mother. She has dementia of that there can be absolutely no doubt. I have plagued the GP surgery for the last four years attempting to get them to help to absolutely no avail. The other day the GP rang me to tell me my mother had a DNR - I pointed out to her that I knew about it last October! I tried to discuss the situation and the GP said I have only phoned about the DNR and when I pointed out that was the problem you people don't listen she put the phone down on me. Now today my mother had problem with her sandals - my fault because I bought them for her two years ago! She has other sandals but apparently they're no good either! Lunchtime she blanked me when I went round there for whatever reason she has going on in her head. This evening I went round to put out the rubbish and walk the dog. She told me her three hour a week lady had been to the chemist to pick up antibiotics for her and there was another package there, had I ordered her prescriptions (yes I order her prescriptions once a month and hadn't picked them up yet). The lady didn't bring the package because she thought it might have looked like she was interferring - you bet. As for the antibiotics, I already had them at home (they had been put on repeat prescription so they were available when needed) - so the problem arises when she doesn't bother to tell you what she is doing and involves unnecessary calls and trips. But hey because I get annoyed because she's got all these folk running around for her when it's absolutely unnecessary, she starts - why do you hate me so much - oh please, I could so very easily have pointed out why - I just explained that everything she says or does is the opposite of right, black is white, etc. Nothing I do for her is ever right end of. And I have come home. I am so very sorry to have to blurt out but if I didn't I would burst. Sorry again.