Hi everyone ? I have a big problem I could really do with some good advice with so here goes...I asked his younger sister if she new my father was keeping ok and staying safe because of covid19. To be told" yes hes fine I see him on a daily basis".. then I found out by hear say he had Alzheimer's , a social worker and carers 4 times per day.
Why couldn't she tell me this? This raised red flags for me!
I was also told financial abuse was taken place ...so I involved the police to look in to it.
The police confirmed my father is a very vulnerable man.
Since all that happened back in March the case has now been closed as his younger sister was questioned and provided everything she was asked by police.
Iv since been to my fathers on 2 occasions for very short visits for father's day.
His younger sister found out I went to see him and left me an awful voicemail telling me not to go see him again without her presant as she is his appointee power of attorney ?.
I have rang the office of the public guardian to be told no one at my fathers address has POA even if she had poa she has no rights to stop family visiting.
She obviously doesn't want me in my father's life for some reason?
So now I'm in a very awkward position...I would like to visit my father as he was very happy when I did...but I feel his sister is making it very difficult for me to do so.
I don't want to see her as I know she will hate me for involving police.
Also how do I get my fathers social worker to talk to me about my fathers condition? When was he diagnosed?
What stage is he at?
What he is able to do and not...any help on how to build a relationship with my father as he is now.
Don't I deserve the right to be able to see my father ? And how can I get the information I should be informed of about his health. Rachel ?
Why couldn't she tell me this? This raised red flags for me!
I was also told financial abuse was taken place ...so I involved the police to look in to it.
The police confirmed my father is a very vulnerable man.
Since all that happened back in March the case has now been closed as his younger sister was questioned and provided everything she was asked by police.
Iv since been to my fathers on 2 occasions for very short visits for father's day.
His younger sister found out I went to see him and left me an awful voicemail telling me not to go see him again without her presant as she is his appointee power of attorney ?.
I have rang the office of the public guardian to be told no one at my fathers address has POA even if she had poa she has no rights to stop family visiting.
She obviously doesn't want me in my father's life for some reason?
So now I'm in a very awkward position...I would like to visit my father as he was very happy when I did...but I feel his sister is making it very difficult for me to do so.
I don't want to see her as I know she will hate me for involving police.
Also how do I get my fathers social worker to talk to me about my fathers condition? When was he diagnosed?
What stage is he at?
What he is able to do and not...any help on how to build a relationship with my father as he is now.
Don't I deserve the right to be able to see my father ? And how can I get the information I should be informed of about his health. Rachel ?