Hi all,
OK, bear with me, had a real, well I'd call it kicking this afternoon.
The CPN rang and asked to come and see me, I thought about how I was doing under such stress as he said originally he was here for us both.
How naive I was.
Now, the first thing I have to state is that my house is a mess and needs a good clean. Since I was ill a while back it slipped away from me, but I've engaged one of the home helps to come clean it up and come occationally to keep it clean and the CPN knows this.
He came today and said he'd been talking to mums ward, they said her skin on her backside was in a right state, and questioned how i'd let her get like that.
I know the district nurse will say it was fine, it was, the only thing I can think of is spending all that time on a hard hospital trolley.
The second thing is because the house needs cleaning, they are saying I could of caused mum to be ill......
They are also considering declaring me unfit to look after mum, and putting her in a home.
To say this came as a shock is an understatement, he said I am sorry if it seems harsh, I replied you sure know how to kick someone when they are down, and asked him to leave.
After he had gone I went and threw up, never been shocked like that before.
I am being treated for stress but they have no right to treat me like this!
It makes u feel worthless.
I am still cold and shaking, but I wanted to know if anyone know of what my legal options are, because I DO NOT like to be told mum has to go into a home
hugs
David
OK, bear with me, had a real, well I'd call it kicking this afternoon.
The CPN rang and asked to come and see me, I thought about how I was doing under such stress as he said originally he was here for us both.
How naive I was.
Now, the first thing I have to state is that my house is a mess and needs a good clean. Since I was ill a while back it slipped away from me, but I've engaged one of the home helps to come clean it up and come occationally to keep it clean and the CPN knows this.
He came today and said he'd been talking to mums ward, they said her skin on her backside was in a right state, and questioned how i'd let her get like that.
I know the district nurse will say it was fine, it was, the only thing I can think of is spending all that time on a hard hospital trolley.
The second thing is because the house needs cleaning, they are saying I could of caused mum to be ill......
They are also considering declaring me unfit to look after mum, and putting her in a home.
To say this came as a shock is an understatement, he said I am sorry if it seems harsh, I replied you sure know how to kick someone when they are down, and asked him to leave.
After he had gone I went and threw up, never been shocked like that before.
I am being treated for stress but they have no right to treat me like this!
It makes u feel worthless.
I am still cold and shaking, but I wanted to know if anyone know of what my legal options are, because I DO NOT like to be told mum has to go into a home
hugs
David