My mum is 67 and has vascular dementia. So far ive got social services and a mental health team going in. Today we moved on and she said yes to people going in to check her taking tablets. I cant cope with the 30/40 phone calls i get after this - hating me swearing at me telling me all sorts of things all horrid. I no its normal but i cant cope with it. Im an only child so its me thats getting it all the time. I went to the GP this week who said its ok you not depressed (i have been years ago) you are stressed and run down - i walk out with the pills for my mum and the puffers for my 5 year old - nothing for me. The GP is good though she came this morning before the mental heath lot and just told my mum she had to have help - we could not find the pil box i got for her and i think she has been taking the all in one go and this time shes just put it in the bin! Sorry for ranting dont realy know what im doing just know who ever i ask im not getting much help for me. Still waiting for carers support to get in touch and others!