Mother is 84 and has Alzheimers for 4 years , She lives on her own with carers going in 3 times per day - She wont let them do a thing as she thinks she is doing everything for herself . She wont change her clothes . She cant handle money , has an imaginery dog and goes and looks for it - Yesterday while she was out looking for the dog, thieves entered and took away her safe . Mother was completely unfazed by the whole experience as she said she couldnt remember having a safe anyway - Ive asked the doctor to check her out as Im concerned she could be self harming , ie not washing , not eating etc . I havent heard anything about the results and it was 2 months ago I contacted the doctor .The Police have classified her as most vulnerable . What can I do to speed things up as she needs to be in a home where she can get the care she needs. When I discuss a carehome with Mother she goes ape as as far as she is concerned theres nothing wrong . Im not looking for any sympathy just straight forward advice .
Regards
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