All I see is that my parents needs are catered for, but they still complain. They both have dementia and nothing is ever what they want or expect, despite my being an only child and giving my life up to look after them. Dad's in a home now and I live with Mum to look after her.
I'm so lonely and isolated, but Mum has a very social life.
I don't understand why my elderly parents are considered human beings with the authorities, and who still need a life, while I have absolutely no one to talk to or socialise with??????
I'm 55, why am I not considered too??? My life is nothing it seems...........
Surely there are other carers that believe they are getting a bad deal and that it's not all about the caree's???????
Or am I just a selfish person?????????????
I'm so lonely and isolated, but Mum has a very social life.
I don't understand why my elderly parents are considered human beings with the authorities, and who still need a life, while I have absolutely no one to talk to or socialise with??????
I'm 55, why am I not considered too??? My life is nothing it seems...........
Surely there are other carers that believe they are getting a bad deal and that it's not all about the caree's???????
Or am I just a selfish person?????????????