I have vascular dementia can somebody help me with

Discussion in 'I have dementia' started by black night, Jun 21, 2015.

  1. black night

    black night Registered User

    Sep 26, 2014
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    I've been on holiday is Scotland to find out my father died yesterday's morning it has knocked me for six he just feel to the floor b tings back bad memory's for my bigger Bro just went on the fro or so sad at the moment :(
     
  2. Sue J

    Sue J Registered User

    Dec 9, 2009
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    So sorry to read your sad news Black Knight, what a shock for you.
    Take care
    Sue
     
  3. Kjn

    Kjn Registered User

    Jul 27, 2013
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    Oh black night xxx
     
  4. Grannie G

    Grannie G Volunteer Moderator

    Apr 3, 2006
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    I`m so sorry Black Knight. What a terrible shock.
     
  5. chick1962

    chick1962 Registered User

    Apr 3, 2014
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    Oh Steve So sorry for your sad news . Hugs and love to you and Theresa xx


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  6. balloo

    balloo Registered User

    Sep 21, 2013
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    I am so sorry to hear this sad news ,I do know how you feel 23 years ago I had a phone call from my sister my father had just sat in his chair and passed away he was only 52 ,my sister was only 19 and I was only 25 .A shock indeed .take time to grieve. Hugs
     
  7. reedysue

    reedysue Registered User

    Nov 4, 2014
    4,640
    Scotland
    So sorry to hear your sad news, it must have been a terrible shock.
     
  8. Gigglemore

    Gigglemore Registered User

    Oct 18, 2013
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    So very sorry for the loss of your father, a terrible shock for you.
     
  9. black night

    black night Registered User

    Sep 26, 2014
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    I have vascular dementia can somebody help me

    Hi chick I am so devistated to have lost both mum and dad now losing my dad on saterday morning no one rang me until the evening but that's becase thay didint want to spoil my holiday in Scotland we had a wonderful time but to come home to the news I still can't beleave it its put my dementia up a bit I'm trying to control it I'm glad that I can talk to you I feel emtye
    at the minite I'm going to go with one of my brothers to my dad's bungalow tomorrow I can't do anything to help as my arm and hand still not working still waiting for letter from hospital to go back to doctors and get referd to atheritis specialist to what kind of artheritis I have .love you hugs to you stev and terasaxxx
     
  10. chick1962

    chick1962 Registered User

    Apr 3, 2014
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    near Folkestone
    Oh Steve , I am thinking of you both at this sad time and sending my condolences to you and your family . I wish you strength for the coming days much love to you all xxx


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  11. CollegeGirl

    CollegeGirl Registered User

    Jan 19, 2011
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    I'm so very sorry to hear this, what a terrible shock for you. Sending my condolences.
     
  12. creativesarah

    creativesarah Registered User

    thinking of you Steve at this difficult time
     
  13. Dazmum

    Dazmum Registered User

    I'm so very sorry Steve, what a terrible shock for you xxx
     
  14. black night

    black night Registered User

    Sep 26, 2014
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    I have vascular dementia can somebody help me

    Hi Sarah thank you and everyone for your messages it was a sad day I'm just feeling emty at the present. This morning I went to my doctor now I'm on morfine and water tablets as well as my 13 tablets for everything else .I asked him for extra help for my memory loss and he seid I couldn't get any more help I can't remember my address or my grandauters names and can't remember a lot of things I just feel let down now no extra help unbelievable :confused:
     
  15. black night

    black night Registered User

    Sep 26, 2014
    170
    I have vascular dementia can somebody help me

    Hi chick hope you and your family are ok I've got atos coming to my home Thursday morning for pip assessment for 3 time I also have support worker coming to be on my side .I've had blood test to determine what artheritis I have becase now my left arm and hand I can't use becase my hand has curled up in to my hand totally can't use my arm or hand .With my imbalance falling over my joints are atheritis I'm on morfine and water tablets I hope I get pip if not than my support worker seid appeal if that don't work she has seid she will help us to fight in court .my very best to you love stephen and terasa xxxxxxxx
     
  16. Tin

    Tin Registered User

    May 18, 2014
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    Wishing you all the best for Thursday.
     
  17. chick1962

    chick1962 Registered User

    Apr 3, 2014
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    Female
    near Folkestone
    Gosh Steve you have so much going on at the moment . Must be a stressful time for you and Theresa. I will keep fingers crossed on Thursday for you and I am glad you got some support worker with you . Surely this time the claim will be successful. Please let us know how it all went. Love to you and Theresa xxx


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  18. black night

    black night Registered User

    Sep 26, 2014
    170
    I have vascular dementia can somebody help me yes I must agree with you

    Hi chick this morning I had pip benifit assessment atos come to my home when she came through the door she took one look at me and my zimmer frame and other gear she seid that I should have had pip the first time she was better than the other person I also had support worker with us she has been brilliant I'm a little hopefull but not existed yet got to wait for 4 to 6 weeks for desist ion. She admitted to us she's only a nurse she was truthful and that says a lot fingers crossed now love as always stephen terasa xxxxx
     
  19. chick1962

    chick1962 Registered User

    Apr 3, 2014
    11,282
    Female
    near Folkestone
    That sounds all really promising Steve :) so glad you had support there with you. Hopefully the outcome will be good so you can move forward and leave all that stress behind you :) hooray x


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  20. creativesarah

    creativesarah Registered User

    sounds promising Steve
     

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