My OH was diagnosed with Alzheimers just over three years ago. I have cared and supported him alone ever since. He has always enjoyed alcohol and has continued to drink despite the Doctor's advice not to. The Doctor said his regular drinking would accelerate his dementia. He refuses to acknowledge he has dementia and says there is nothing wrong with him. His birthday is on Christmas Day so he was drinking plenty of lager, he knocked two pints over during the evening, one it the kitchen and one all over the lounge carpet. I told him off, I had quite a stressful day coping with early morning visit from neighbours, helping OH to open gifts and cooking dinner, all without help. I was tired by the evening hence the argument, and he threatened me with violence. This is the second time in a couple of months he has threatened me, and I felt afraid, particularly as he had been drinking. We sleep in seperate rooms thank goodness and when I went to bed on Christmas night I barricaded myself in my room, just in case. He has been in a strange mood again today, very argumentative and confrontational and seems to be harbouring some nasty thoughts. I am very very depressed at the best of times, but feel that this Christmas is bringing things to a head, I am still feeling upset and afraid, he is drinking lager again, sometimes he moves on to whisky. I have managed to hide the whisky for now, if he discovers that I have, I feel for my life. my stomach is churning as I am writing this, as I have no one I can turn to for help, we have no family. I am at the end of my tether, and I feel that I can't go on, I have had suicidal thoughts in the past. My GP just offered anti depressants when I went to him. I have no support, we are together 24/7. and basically he is driving me insane. I suppose an unhappy marriage to begin with doesnt help, my life is one big disaster from beginning to end with no light at the end of the tunnel, I feel in a very dark place, I am going to barricade myself in again tonight. Sorry for this depressing post folks, I have had to share my thoughts and feelings with anyone who may be there.
xx