Last August my sister and I moved mother into a home near me as she kept falling, was forgetting to eat, ended up with UTI's, incontinent. She has been going down hill but last monday I went to see her (go Mons and Frids). and she was still in bed, very confused. We know she is not a morning person but still. Anyway she hadn't had breakfast and so told staff she could have had breakfast in bed they agreed. But then she wet herself. As one of the carers was washing I went to get her something to put on. What I got for her was a little tight round the arms or it was twisted, but as I helped to take the jumper off she cried in pain and said "I hate you" not once but 3 times. And then said "take that thing away I never want to see it again".
Now I have read that people with dementia can be nasty but it was still a shock.
Now I have read that people with dementia can be nasty but it was still a shock.