My Husband is in a Care/Nursing Home and I have arranged to have some work done on our bungalow, its needed doing for a long time but he wouldn't let anyone into our Bungalow to do it despite him agreeing that the work needed doing saying it was his job. All our married life 48 years he has been the one to do anything in the house and was excellent DIY.
I have enlisted various help etc but - I feel so sad as I know how upset he would be if he knew what I was doing.
As if it wasn't bad enough that he is not enjoying his life not being here but I have so mixed up emotions over this.
I have enlisted various help etc but - I feel so sad as I know how upset he would be if he knew what I was doing.
As if it wasn't bad enough that he is not enjoying his life not being here but I have so mixed up emotions over this.