Hi everyone,
I'm just after some advice for my Gran because I don't know what to do anymore. I used to care for my Gran who has dementia before I went away to university in September but since I left, the deterioration has been rapid, she now doesn't know who I am and her behaviour is quite challenging. My Grandpa is struggling to care for her but is so stubborn that he is refusing to have carers in because he says it is his duty to care for Gran which I totally understand but the situation isn't safe anymore. Gran has lots of falls because she wanders about when my Grandpa isn't watching her. There isn't any other family near by who are willing to help them and I now live 100 miles away and can't afford to keep going home to help and I just don't know what I can do. I'm going home for Christmas holidays next week but I'm just so scared that I'm not going to know how to help her anymore because she has deteriorated so much.
I just don't know what to do
I'm just after some advice for my Gran because I don't know what to do anymore. I used to care for my Gran who has dementia before I went away to university in September but since I left, the deterioration has been rapid, she now doesn't know who I am and her behaviour is quite challenging. My Grandpa is struggling to care for her but is so stubborn that he is refusing to have carers in because he says it is his duty to care for Gran which I totally understand but the situation isn't safe anymore. Gran has lots of falls because she wanders about when my Grandpa isn't watching her. There isn't any other family near by who are willing to help them and I now live 100 miles away and can't afford to keep going home to help and I just don't know what I can do. I'm going home for Christmas holidays next week but I'm just so scared that I'm not going to know how to help her anymore because she has deteriorated so much.
I just don't know what to do