Hi everyone can i speak to anyone on here. My grandad isnt that bad at the moment .But its all getting to me he has had vascular dementia and alzheimers mid stages for 5 year now. Me my brother look after him and live with him my aunt is up every weekend to help too. make his meals and gove him his tablets. Im just really scared about what is to come next. I just feel bad as im getting down about it all. We all work full time too.