I have had a severe disability for many years. I use a wheelchair. My mum has been my main carer for a long time. She was diagnosed with Alzheimer's 4 years ago and has slowly got worse. I now has carers for myself once a day. We were doing OK until Dad started to get similar symptoms, confusion, memory loss. Neither of them will have help from outside. My health is suffering. I am able to tell mum and dad what jobs need doing but can't do them myself. Its got to the "pick up the teaspoon, put the coffee in the cups, no that's a saucer" stage. Trying to get mum to wash is a nightmare. Anyone got any advice.