My Mother will not go near the doctors , thinks everyone else is mad not her
If I contacted her doctor theres no way she would answer the door to him
found out she had not paid her credit card bill for 4 months .......took 2 hours of persistant trying to get her to sign a cheque she kept asking about this that and the other charge , refused to understand you cant just not pay ....claimed they never worried before
Heaven knows if other household bills have been paid
Its possible to have perfectly lucid conversations but in between she suddenly goes off at a tangent and what she says is incoherent
If you challenge her about something she says "forget it " quite aggressively
If you take her to the supermarket she wont let you step out of her sight
At home she follows you around suspicous about everything
Theres no way she would let social services etc into the house
She is insistant that she is not leaving her home
Yet she can barely walk , has been stopped from driving , refuses to accept the car is worth virtually nothing because its damaged " something came up from the road and hit her" but you cant get any info about the accident .......more likely several
Theres no way at all she will sign an EPA
She is so deaf its a waste of time trying to phone her
She never phones us
Nearest bus stop is too far ......she is so often totally unable to remember/ gather together the correct words for anything that she certainly could not order a taxi or Dial a ride service because they are unlikely to know who she is where she lives or where she wants to go
She claims imaginary people are outside in the road ganging up on her or that " the boys are in the house"
Yet with all of this she can still seem to all and sundry percfectly lucid
Totally insistant that the gardening girl must not use any tools but Mothers
As fast as I think she has Alzheimers or Vascular dementia ( she has been on BP pills for 20 years ) but then she can be so lucid i just do not know anymore
She just does not seem to fit the picture others paint on this forum but maybe it is me who is mad !!!
The only way I can see forward to be able to deal with her property and finances is to go to court of protection for receivership but that seems so extreme
Any ideas please
If I contacted her doctor theres no way she would answer the door to him
found out she had not paid her credit card bill for 4 months .......took 2 hours of persistant trying to get her to sign a cheque she kept asking about this that and the other charge , refused to understand you cant just not pay ....claimed they never worried before
Heaven knows if other household bills have been paid
Its possible to have perfectly lucid conversations but in between she suddenly goes off at a tangent and what she says is incoherent
If you challenge her about something she says "forget it " quite aggressively
If you take her to the supermarket she wont let you step out of her sight
At home she follows you around suspicous about everything
Theres no way she would let social services etc into the house
She is insistant that she is not leaving her home
Yet she can barely walk , has been stopped from driving , refuses to accept the car is worth virtually nothing because its damaged " something came up from the road and hit her" but you cant get any info about the accident .......more likely several
Theres no way at all she will sign an EPA
She is so deaf its a waste of time trying to phone her
She never phones us
Nearest bus stop is too far ......she is so often totally unable to remember/ gather together the correct words for anything that she certainly could not order a taxi or Dial a ride service because they are unlikely to know who she is where she lives or where she wants to go
She claims imaginary people are outside in the road ganging up on her or that " the boys are in the house"
Yet with all of this she can still seem to all and sundry percfectly lucid
Totally insistant that the gardening girl must not use any tools but Mothers
As fast as I think she has Alzheimers or Vascular dementia ( she has been on BP pills for 20 years ) but then she can be so lucid i just do not know anymore
She just does not seem to fit the picture others paint on this forum but maybe it is me who is mad !!!
The only way I can see forward to be able to deal with her property and finances is to go to court of protection for receivership but that seems so extreme
Any ideas please