The solicitors are now registering the EPA, they siad the house could not be sold without registration, but having looked at the PGO website.....thanks Yvonne.... perhaps they were wrong.
These are the firm Dad and Mum always used for their wills and setting up the EPA back in 2003. Dad told the solicitor who drew it up the reasons why he chose my husband and uncle and not my brother, but it seems his wishes are being forgotten somehow.
The EPA has been used since Dad's sudden death in October 2004 and there have been no problems until now.
My brother started making waves about a year ago and called a meeting at his home where he had obviously spent many hours putting together a plan for her money.......hence the decision to register it.
These plans included stopping paying for entertainment at the home, as "she doesn't know what's going on" stopping the hairdresser doing her hair as "she doesn't care what she looks like" and having a funeral plan which "won't be nearly as expensive as Dad's as there won't be as many people there."
At that point I blew my top and said if he spent more time visiting Mum and less time protecting his own interests I might be willing to listen to his crazy ideas..........I was told to leave and he has not contacted me since.
My uncle phoned the PGO and they seem to think that as my brother is not able to provide any evidence to back up his accusations, it should be alright, they say this happens a lot in families.............I just never in a million years thought it could happen in mine, we 3 children were always so close.........it is incredibly sad as no matter what, he is still my brother and I don't hate him, just the way he is acting at the moment.
Kathleen
These are the firm Dad and Mum always used for their wills and setting up the EPA back in 2003. Dad told the solicitor who drew it up the reasons why he chose my husband and uncle and not my brother, but it seems his wishes are being forgotten somehow.
The EPA has been used since Dad's sudden death in October 2004 and there have been no problems until now.
My brother started making waves about a year ago and called a meeting at his home where he had obviously spent many hours putting together a plan for her money.......hence the decision to register it.
These plans included stopping paying for entertainment at the home, as "she doesn't know what's going on" stopping the hairdresser doing her hair as "she doesn't care what she looks like" and having a funeral plan which "won't be nearly as expensive as Dad's as there won't be as many people there."
At that point I blew my top and said if he spent more time visiting Mum and less time protecting his own interests I might be willing to listen to his crazy ideas..........I was told to leave and he has not contacted me since.
My uncle phoned the PGO and they seem to think that as my brother is not able to provide any evidence to back up his accusations, it should be alright, they say this happens a lot in families.............I just never in a million years thought it could happen in mine, we 3 children were always so close.........it is incredibly sad as no matter what, he is still my brother and I don't hate him, just the way he is acting at the moment.
Kathleen