Hello Anne-Marie,
Just read through your posts, and you have my thoughts and hugs in bucket loads.
I agree that you should go to see another GP, there is nothing worse than someone telling you you should be ok in such-and-such a time. Who put a time limit on grief? It sounds to me like you need an anti-depressant, which can be very helpful at times when you're as low as you can get. I've recently had my dose of tablets, which I've taken for six years since my dad died, quadrupled as I was still a quivering wreck when I was referred to a mental health nurse locally. I won't be on the huge dose forever, just enough time to get me out of the trough I was in (without realising it), then I can look to Cruise for grief counselling.
There are many groups available for you to find someone who can help you. What you're feeling is perfectly natural, and you will feel better in time. But no one can tell you when that will be, unfortunately, it takes as long as it takes.
Please go back to your GP, and see if you can find someone who's a bit more compassionate than the one you've seen.
Gill
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