My mother in law has vascular dementia . Her husband cares for her 24/7 and i believe it i really taking its toll on him. His brother died last week and the funeral is on Monday. It is a long way from home and will require a 5 hour journey in the car there and back. I wondered if anyone has any helpful hints how to deal with the long car journey,although sadly they may not go if she is unwilling which would be a real shame.