I feel very out of my depth with the diagnosis. My mother and I were literally giving the diagnosis and then provided with heavily photocopied leaflets about whom to contact. My doctor refused outright to provide me with any counselling (3/4 month waiting list) and told me to get in touch with Age UK and the Alzheimer's Society. I feel that I have had to be extremely pro-active about getting any local/dememntia care information and feel like I am treading water a lot of the time. Frankly I am permantley exhausted and this does not help with my work, (lathough I only work 4 days a week.) I also feel quite isolated even though my mother has only early stage dementia. I am frightened and scared of what is to come, especially as my mother could live for another 15 years and all ready I am finding caring for someone with this illness very difficult.
I do not know anyone else of my age who is caring for a relative with dementia. My mother has been widowed for over 20 years and is an only child. Any help or contact with carers of a similar age would be fantastic. I have found that many of the support groups/cafes are on the days when I work - so this forum is the only way I can contact people.
Life has changed so much over then last year and I realise this is only the beginning of a very long road.
I do not know anyone else of my age who is caring for a relative with dementia. My mother has been widowed for over 20 years and is an only child. Any help or contact with carers of a similar age would be fantastic. I have found that many of the support groups/cafes are on the days when I work - so this forum is the only way I can contact people.
Life has changed so much over then last year and I realise this is only the beginning of a very long road.