My Beatuiful, beautiful Mum died on the 22nd of December and I am just not coping with her gone. I can't get up, have no motivation to live anymore, what keeps me going s that I could join her if I don't improve.
I don't know what to do.
Hi sarafina,
Firstly i'm sorry to hear about your mum.
i understand how you are feeling as i too have gone through this.
I know its very hard. The only one simple thing that helped me and gave me no choice but to get through it was;
You have to think your mum would not want you feeling like this
she would more than likely want you to smile and laugh at the memories and thought of the happy times you both had.
also the last and main thing is you HAVE to think that your mum is not in any more pain and she is not suffering, she is, wherever she is, with other lost loved ones.
Hope this helps
Jodie