Is it worth contacting your husband's favourite GP and explaining the situation along with a bullet point list of the things that concern you? You could ask the GP to call your husband in for a well-man check or at least a phone consultation to start the ball rolling. There are other things that mimic dementia, so worth your husband getting checked out. If you do manage an appointment either go with him or put the phone on speaker mode so you know what was said.
Good luck with it all. I'm sure others will be along shortly with their suggestions.
Thanks it’s a possibility ,although he might think I had contacted the GP we have quite a few new ones I think it could be very difficult to get an appointment with
GP we know . He would not be happy if he got to know I had instigated this , he had an annual health check approx 6 weeks ago which seemed fine . Hopefully he will make the decision himself to see the GP with a bit encouragement . I find it really hard as he calls me a liar when I haven’t lied , and says things that really upset me .
We have had a bit of a difficult time for a good while . He is a lovely man when he is ok but has another side , very stubborn won’t listen to reason today told me the house is going up for sale and we are divorcing he says he has had enough of me and my lies . I am not willing to admit to lying just to shut him up
I have been here before with my Mother she died last year , This is so different and if it is dementia ,just the start of his dementia journey
I am upset , angry and worried . Thank goodness for Talking Point