Well what can I say? Thank you seems such a small word. My head, my emotions and my attitude has changed today thanks to all your comments and support. I'm just adapting and supporting my oh, relax and enjoy having him still, even if he's changed, he's still here, he still laughs, he still chats with me. It doesn't seen like the most important thing to get the doctors involved yet, I know it will come, but maybe not just yet. I pray you all have moments of peace and get enough sleep, you're important. Than you again, I will be using this forum lots in the future I'm sure, its the best thing.