Hi
My mum’s been in a Care Home for the last year due to her Dementia. I’m down as Next of Kin etc and I am very happy with how she is being looked after.
However, last week I got a copy of the DOL’s Report and in this were several things that I wasn’t aware of. These include that she’d had a fall, a change of medication and that she’d been smearing excrement on her bedroom walls. Also, last week when I visited the Podiatrist was in. It turned out that my mum hadn’t allowed anyone to cut her nails since May.
I always ask how she has been but I didn’t know about these things. I want to say to the Care Home that I want to be informed about things like this rather than find out from a report. Clearly me asking how she is isn’t getting the right info.
I struggle to be assertive with things like this and wondered what the normal process is? For example is it normal to have say a monthly review meeting with the Care Home staff for any updates? Also, I don’t want to make a formal complaint or blow things up as I do think they do an amazing job. Would it be best to just ring and say my concerns or should I ask for a brief meeting?
I’d appreciate any advice- I really don’t like to do this sort of thing so any help is appreciated
Thanks
My mum’s been in a Care Home for the last year due to her Dementia. I’m down as Next of Kin etc and I am very happy with how she is being looked after.
However, last week I got a copy of the DOL’s Report and in this were several things that I wasn’t aware of. These include that she’d had a fall, a change of medication and that she’d been smearing excrement on her bedroom walls. Also, last week when I visited the Podiatrist was in. It turned out that my mum hadn’t allowed anyone to cut her nails since May.
I always ask how she has been but I didn’t know about these things. I want to say to the Care Home that I want to be informed about things like this rather than find out from a report. Clearly me asking how she is isn’t getting the right info.
I struggle to be assertive with things like this and wondered what the normal process is? For example is it normal to have say a monthly review meeting with the Care Home staff for any updates? Also, I don’t want to make a formal complaint or blow things up as I do think they do an amazing job. Would it be best to just ring and say my concerns or should I ask for a brief meeting?
I’d appreciate any advice- I really don’t like to do this sort of thing so any help is appreciated
Thanks