Hi, I’m new to the forum and new to dementia, well, if it is dementia my dad has and I’m pretty sure it is. It’s lockdown right now so I thought I’d make a start to finding information and support for my dad who lives 500 miles away and has no family close by to look in on him. He has not been diagnosed with dementia and his story is a long one that’s reached a point whereby I don’t feel I can continue to do nothing about it. He is 78 and extremely lonely since losing my mum about 12 years ago. He’s very creative and academic making the loneliness more difficult and if I’m honest, I think he wouldn’t be exhibiting half of what he does if he had family or friends popping in, taking him out and to have conversations with but there’s no denying that this is more than just forgetting things, there’s hearing voices, having conversations with the voices, some of whom he’s named to help him when referencing them. He’s delusional and has grand ideas and plans. His conversations often don’t connect. He’ll jump from one subject to another and he will repeat almost word for word, the same lines time and time and time again. He’s scared, he believes his house has hidden surveillance cameras, he believes he’s being watched, talked about, made fun off, and threatened. Occasionally a voice will be kind but most are threatening and cruel. He has slept with a hammer under his pillow and had his house alarm upgraded. He’s hung a full length curtain in front of his toilet to stop ‘people’ watching him, there is no window. He keeps misplacing things but he’s convinced it’s these people entering his house and taking them or hiding them on purpose to make him look like he’s going off his mind so he will be taken from his home which is what they are after. They want his house to conduct their business from which he believes several other neighbouring houses are all part of the same set up, out to get his property. I could go on. Since this is just an introduction, I’ll leave it at that for now but what I’m here for is to find out if my dad has dementia or some other mental health and how I can go about getting him care and support without him getting angry and distrusting me. I’m one of few people he trusts. I look forward to sharing all that I’ve been through with dad and reading whether anyone else has had similar experiences. It’s very late right now so I will go to sleep and look forward to conversing with you all. Thank you and apologies for the long post.