hello again.
Another crisis.
Last few times I saw my mother she was obsessed with either:
1 - she had killed me so who was "I", it can't be "me" as I'm dead, she killed me
2 - she wants to die. She wishes she was dead. She will be dead by next week.
3 - she is living in a concentration camp and all the people are nazi's, or out to get her.
4 - I have to go, I must leave immediately, because if I don't go right now, I will be shot, she says. She insists quite strongly I leave the building and go home straight away, and this is after being there for just 2 minutes. The carer's tell me she was ok until I arrived.
I want to see my mum tomorrow. But I've kinda lost the plot on how to stay calm and not get upset about any of the above. I feel sure one of the above will happen again tomorrow. The one I'm dreading the most is number 4 of the above. I think it would just truly upset me if when I get there she orders me to leave straight away.
Comments? Advice?
thank you
Another crisis.
Last few times I saw my mother she was obsessed with either:
1 - she had killed me so who was "I", it can't be "me" as I'm dead, she killed me
2 - she wants to die. She wishes she was dead. She will be dead by next week.
3 - she is living in a concentration camp and all the people are nazi's, or out to get her.
4 - I have to go, I must leave immediately, because if I don't go right now, I will be shot, she says. She insists quite strongly I leave the building and go home straight away, and this is after being there for just 2 minutes. The carer's tell me she was ok until I arrived.
I want to see my mum tomorrow. But I've kinda lost the plot on how to stay calm and not get upset about any of the above. I feel sure one of the above will happen again tomorrow. The one I'm dreading the most is number 4 of the above. I think it would just truly upset me if when I get there she orders me to leave straight away.
Comments? Advice?
thank you