Any advice on how to get mum with alzhiemers to accept a carer going into her home a couple of times a day. She does not recognise she has alzheimers but she is currently in respite care as she has polymyalgia and was unable to cope at home on her own it was painful to move and only bathroom upstairs. She hates it in care home and wants to go home it is heartbreaking but i work fulltime and live in a small house wirh my husband so cant have her at mine and i cant stay at hers. I just need to get her to accept carers going in first thing in morning and in the evening maybe.