I spent an hour or so last week end finding and putting up a few Christmas decorations...
Today, I've taken them all down.
It was not as though I had made a big fuss/ deal.. we did not really have much on display.
My husband has / is so disorientated by the decorations over these last few days that I thought it best to remove them all, and put them away.
He thought that I'd changed the whole lounge around... couches... bookcases
THE LOT.
Could not remember where to sit... Where things were / are....
Thought the TV had been moved... pretty much everything.
Got angry at 'me touching HIS posessions' .. (yet again !!)..
He just could not handle it ... at all.
This has really upset me. I know I shouldn't be bothered but I am.
Probably because I am so drained and tired of the caring 24/7.
This is another NEW thing for us both.
He asked the other day...
"Is it Christmas Eve tomorrow?"... after seeing an add on TV.... then got angry that they were showing ads 'too early'.....
We don't even have any Christmas cards up at all, he kept asking if it was someones birthday.
I guess you could say we have 'celebrated' our last Christmas together.
Has anyone else felt like the HAD to 'give in' and not be able to show any signs of Christmas?
Thanks all....
Take Care
DaisyG
Today, I've taken them all down.
It was not as though I had made a big fuss/ deal.. we did not really have much on display.
My husband has / is so disorientated by the decorations over these last few days that I thought it best to remove them all, and put them away.
He thought that I'd changed the whole lounge around... couches... bookcases
THE LOT.
Could not remember where to sit... Where things were / are....
Thought the TV had been moved... pretty much everything.
Got angry at 'me touching HIS posessions' .. (yet again !!)..
He just could not handle it ... at all.
This has really upset me. I know I shouldn't be bothered but I am.
Probably because I am so drained and tired of the caring 24/7.
This is another NEW thing for us both.
He asked the other day...
"Is it Christmas Eve tomorrow?"... after seeing an add on TV.... then got angry that they were showing ads 'too early'.....
We don't even have any Christmas cards up at all, he kept asking if it was someones birthday.
I guess you could say we have 'celebrated' our last Christmas together.
Has anyone else felt like the HAD to 'give in' and not be able to show any signs of Christmas?
Thanks all....
Take Care
DaisyG