My husband who has Vascular Dementia has not been sleeping for the last few weeks. He wakes at around 1.30 and constantly comes in and out to me for the rest of the night. He has been on numerous sleeping tablets and calming medicine.
Our GP has suggested he go into respite for a couple of nights a week to give me a break. This sounds very good and I know it is. But the respite is next to the day centre he attends 5 days a week and really likes going.
I just don't know how to tell him and what his reaction will be when he comes home. It may completely put him off going to the day centre and make him so unhappy. He is very placid and I know I am very lucky with this. Without the day centre I know I would not be able to manage him.
Everyone is always telling me I must look after myself, I know this to be true, but I get so upset to think of Robert unhappy I just don't know what to do or say.
If only he would settle down again and sleep this problem would not arise. I know there is no magic button, but life is really difficult at times. Sorry I am going on but I know this site is where I can do it.
Love disi x
Our GP has suggested he go into respite for a couple of nights a week to give me a break. This sounds very good and I know it is. But the respite is next to the day centre he attends 5 days a week and really likes going.
I just don't know how to tell him and what his reaction will be when he comes home. It may completely put him off going to the day centre and make him so unhappy. He is very placid and I know I am very lucky with this. Without the day centre I know I would not be able to manage him.
Everyone is always telling me I must look after myself, I know this to be true, but I get so upset to think of Robert unhappy I just don't know what to do or say.
If only he would settle down again and sleep this problem would not arise. I know there is no magic button, but life is really difficult at times. Sorry I am going on but I know this site is where I can do it.
Love disi x