Hi. I am new as I only registered today but no point on being here if I don't now use it! I look after my Mum (she is 79), she was diagnosed with Alzhiemers about two years ago, and has been living with me for two and a half years. Initially it was difficult to move her away from her home and friends and get used to living with me. But it was nice to spend some time with her, and be able to take her out and see her enjoy herself. However over the last few months I have been getting more and more frustrated and short tempered with her, I just don't seem to be able to help myself. I hear myself snap at her, I just talk before I think!! I have been trying to take regular breaks but am feeling really selfish as all of a sudden I just feel that I want my life back! Has anyone got any bright suggestions on how to take a step back and get a grip?