My youngest brother, who is single, has asked me to accompany him on a 19 day fly cruise to the Hawaiian Islands in September and I know it would cause some issues. Firstly Pauline herself, and how and when to raise it with her as because of Lockdown she thinks I am a fixture and secondly care. For her. Two of her sons refusing to acknowledge her or the dementia and the other is great with phone calls but cant see how he could give her the time. She isn't in need of a carehome and up to now no need for visiting carers. Quandary all round as I see it and dont know who to talk to first so any (all) advice appreciated, thank you.