I don't disagree with canary, should it come to your dad actually getting back home @CardiffGirlInEssex
what I was suggesting is that no-one helps with the pre move organisation so your dad cannot go home .... if only your mum is at home to (not) move furniture and 'take delivery' of the hospital bed etc then I take it your mum will refuse to accept any of this and the move back home cannot take place .... though this does assume (possibly foolishly) that the discharge won't take place if the house isn't ready
maybe contact the PALS at the hospital to see if they can help, as they know hospital procedures
what I was suggesting is that no-one helps with the pre move organisation so your dad cannot go home .... if only your mum is at home to (not) move furniture and 'take delivery' of the hospital bed etc then I take it your mum will refuse to accept any of this and the move back home cannot take place .... though this does assume (possibly foolishly) that the discharge won't take place if the house isn't ready
maybe contact the PALS at the hospital to see if they can help, as they know hospital procedures