As some of you know, at the moment we are waiting to get the EPA registered and this causes a lot of stress to us all.
Mum, though is totally unaware of the problem as, apart from being in an EMI home and away from the problem, no-one has ever mentioned what is happening anywhere near her, nor do we ever talk of my brother to her.......the cause of the problem.
The strangest things have happened on the last two occasions my sister and I have visited.
With me, Mum was apparently asleep, then opened her eyes and said "if he doesn't shut up by friday, hit him over the head with a brick" then laughed. This is from a lady who can barely string three coherent words together any more.
My sister's visit was next and Mum asked
"have I made a will?"
when told she had, she said "I don't want him taking any of my things"
As it turns out, we since learned, there is an objection from my brother that the EPA was made out when Mum was unable to understand what she was signing...........wrong, but worth a try as his other objections have been proven to be unfounded.........this would mean the EPA was invalid, so too would be the will made the same day.
Strangest of all is that if that were the case, the previous will would be restored and in that will, my brother was left not one penny piece because of the awful way he was treating everyone.
He is getting a letter tomorrow to ask if he really wants to go ahead with this objection under these circumstances.............I'm guessing not!
We have racked our brains for a logical explanation to how Mum seems to know what is going on, but can't find the answers. It is strangely comforting though
Kathleen
Mum, though is totally unaware of the problem as, apart from being in an EMI home and away from the problem, no-one has ever mentioned what is happening anywhere near her, nor do we ever talk of my brother to her.......the cause of the problem.
The strangest things have happened on the last two occasions my sister and I have visited.
With me, Mum was apparently asleep, then opened her eyes and said "if he doesn't shut up by friday, hit him over the head with a brick" then laughed. This is from a lady who can barely string three coherent words together any more.
My sister's visit was next and Mum asked
"have I made a will?"
when told she had, she said "I don't want him taking any of my things"
As it turns out, we since learned, there is an objection from my brother that the EPA was made out when Mum was unable to understand what she was signing...........wrong, but worth a try as his other objections have been proven to be unfounded.........this would mean the EPA was invalid, so too would be the will made the same day.
Strangest of all is that if that were the case, the previous will would be restored and in that will, my brother was left not one penny piece because of the awful way he was treating everyone.
He is getting a letter tomorrow to ask if he really wants to go ahead with this objection under these circumstances.............I'm guessing not!
We have racked our brains for a logical explanation to how Mum seems to know what is going on, but can't find the answers. It is strangely comforting though
Kathleen