My brother and I are looking after our 97year old mother with advanced dementia, my brother does the majority of it. She is in total denial of everything, has hearing aids - 'I don't need them' but seems to lip read. Denies ever seeing the doctor. Refuses to eat a balanced meal, just wants biscuits, crisps etc. and eats constantly yet is underweight. Calls us liars, tells us to get out and not to come back, wants help but won't accept it. Seems incapable of taking anything in and is unable to retain it. Constantly repeats the same question, over and over again like a broken record. We have tried everything we can think of and don't know what to do/try next. Her appointment with the Mental Health Team has been postponed from tomorrow until the end of June, but we need help now. She will not allow anyone apart from us into the house to help her. Anyone got any suggestions?