Thanks to those who replied to my query about assessment.
Now on to the next problem. Dad has broached the subject of care with Mum as he just can't take any more and she has reacted pretty much as expected so he will probably back down.
Does anyone have any ideas here ? She refuses to admit that she has a problem and says that she can take care of herself. She's been completely dependent on him for over four years now, although she's mobile (and wanders if given the chance)....
Now on to the next problem. Dad has broached the subject of care with Mum as he just can't take any more and she has reacted pretty much as expected so he will probably back down.
Does anyone have any ideas here ? She refuses to admit that she has a problem and says that she can take care of herself. She's been completely dependent on him for over four years now, although she's mobile (and wanders if given the chance)....