My Mum was diagnosed with dementia earlier this year, however I had been noticing changes for 4 or 5 years before this. Her first main symptom was losing words and that now is the most significant symptom. It’s really hard to have a conversation with her because she can’t make a sentence any more.
She is living on her own and is lonely and bored. I don’t know how to fix it though, my siblings are suggesting a Care home, but it’s so expensive and I’m not sure we are there yet. Mum is still mobile and continent and is managing with meals on wheels and a cleaner. She refuses to take any medication and has had a few UTI’s but I think the boredom is the worst thing.
I don’t think she understands when I talk about a day care centre. I don’t even know if this is a good idea! I don’t know how I would get her there either.
I or one of my siblings go to visit her every day after work, but she has taken to going to bed earlier and earlier. I got there at 4:50 today and she was fast asleep in bed. She does have auditory nighttime hallucinations so she might just be tired but I don’t know if she understands the time anymore.
I can’t work out if we are at the start, middle or towards the end of her journey. I hate seeing her struggling to speak. She has stopped eating much. Perhaps half of one meal a day and some sweet things. She will drink a glass of milk most of the time, but sometimes just takes the whole lost back to the kitchen.
She is living on her own and is lonely and bored. I don’t know how to fix it though, my siblings are suggesting a Care home, but it’s so expensive and I’m not sure we are there yet. Mum is still mobile and continent and is managing with meals on wheels and a cleaner. She refuses to take any medication and has had a few UTI’s but I think the boredom is the worst thing.
I don’t think she understands when I talk about a day care centre. I don’t even know if this is a good idea! I don’t know how I would get her there either.
I or one of my siblings go to visit her every day after work, but she has taken to going to bed earlier and earlier. I got there at 4:50 today and she was fast asleep in bed. She does have auditory nighttime hallucinations so she might just be tired but I don’t know if she understands the time anymore.
I can’t work out if we are at the start, middle or towards the end of her journey. I hate seeing her struggling to speak. She has stopped eating much. Perhaps half of one meal a day and some sweet things. She will drink a glass of milk most of the time, but sometimes just takes the whole lost back to the kitchen.