My Dad has Alzheimer's & Mum is his career, I am the only child.
Dad has always dealt with the finances & gets very frustrated if Mum wants to do anything (they have a joint account & personal accounts).
We had a PoA drawn up just before Dad was formally diagnosed (prob 2 yrs ago now) but it's not been activated & Mum keeps saying she can't bring herself to do it yet as it will upset Dad BUT I think it's imperative as he's deteriorated so much recently.
What happens if she just leaves it? I don't want her to be unable to access the money for bills, etc.
This is all so hard - they've been married nearly 55 years. X
Dad has always dealt with the finances & gets very frustrated if Mum wants to do anything (they have a joint account & personal accounts).
We had a PoA drawn up just before Dad was formally diagnosed (prob 2 yrs ago now) but it's not been activated & Mum keeps saying she can't bring herself to do it yet as it will upset Dad BUT I think it's imperative as he's deteriorated so much recently.
What happens if she just leaves it? I don't want her to be unable to access the money for bills, etc.
This is all so hard - they've been married nearly 55 years. X