HI
This is my first time on the forum. I face a problem that I'm sure is not unique and for which I seem unable to get practical professional advice.
My 78 year old Mum has had Alzheimers for at least 10 years and it is becoming clear she will need residential care within the next six months or so. My problem is that, given her memory problems, for much of the time she is unaware that there is anything wrong with her other than a minor problem with her memory. For example she genuinely believes that she cooks all of the meals for herself and my mentally handicapped brother (who lives with her), does all the washing and other housework, goes shopping regularly and has a bath every day. The reality of course is that she does none of these things. So against this background she is not going to understand, nor take kindly, when the time comes that I endeavour to explain to her that she needs residential care.
As I have said I am sure that this is not an unusual situation and would appreciate any suggestions for dealing with the problem.
Thank you
Anne Y
This is my first time on the forum. I face a problem that I'm sure is not unique and for which I seem unable to get practical professional advice.
My 78 year old Mum has had Alzheimers for at least 10 years and it is becoming clear she will need residential care within the next six months or so. My problem is that, given her memory problems, for much of the time she is unaware that there is anything wrong with her other than a minor problem with her memory. For example she genuinely believes that she cooks all of the meals for herself and my mentally handicapped brother (who lives with her), does all the washing and other housework, goes shopping regularly and has a bath every day. The reality of course is that she does none of these things. So against this background she is not going to understand, nor take kindly, when the time comes that I endeavour to explain to her that she needs residential care.
As I have said I am sure that this is not an unusual situation and would appreciate any suggestions for dealing with the problem.
Thank you
Anne Y