My mum has dementia. She recently started to wander and had a fall. We have put in live-in care for the moment but we(the family) feel it would be more consistent for her to be in a home. I have found a lovely, highly recommended place near to me. My problem is how do I move her when she can't remember anything we discuss. I am very worried about the whole situation as it feels thet we are doing things behind her back. We always keep her informed of the care changes and tell her what is happening but she just forgets.