Hi,
As you know, dad passed away 2 months ago.
Mum is going through a very low point at the moment. She doesn't want to really do anything, she moans all the time that she is bored, she keeps going on about where she used to live and wishes she was back there, and she is really angry at times.
I know it is early days and that she is grieving, and I fully understand that. I am being very patient with her and giving her lots of love and attention. She is becoming more forgetful and is repeating herself more than ever.
I fully understand what grieving is like, obviously having lost my dad, and then last year I lost my mother-in-law.
I feel so sad. I want to help mum more and try and understand what to say or do. Do I get help myself in trying to understand, and if so where? When mum is like this it makes me low, and is just don't know what do to. I know time is a great healer, but what can I do now for her.
Love
Michele xx
As you know, dad passed away 2 months ago.
Mum is going through a very low point at the moment. She doesn't want to really do anything, she moans all the time that she is bored, she keeps going on about where she used to live and wishes she was back there, and she is really angry at times.
I know it is early days and that she is grieving, and I fully understand that. I am being very patient with her and giving her lots of love and attention. She is becoming more forgetful and is repeating herself more than ever.
I fully understand what grieving is like, obviously having lost my dad, and then last year I lost my mother-in-law.
I feel so sad. I want to help mum more and try and understand what to say or do. Do I get help myself in trying to understand, and if so where? When mum is like this it makes me low, and is just don't know what do to. I know time is a great healer, but what can I do now for her.
Love
Michele xx