Your advice on trying to stop my husband from driving was very helpful. He still argues and sulks when we go out but I am all the more certain I am doing the right thing by not letting him drive.
Today he has rung me at work four times to say he cannot find his bank card, this is his third one in 6 months. I saw it on Monday and have just done a full search of the house but there is no sign of it.
I am leaving work in December and asked hubby if we could have a joint bank account, at present I am paying all the bills from my income, he says no, he wants to keep his own bank account but he is loathe to spend anything.
I have also tried to talk about enduring power of attorney but he is none commital.
I'm not sure how to handle this, at present he does not think he has any problems, he said to me the other week that he had 18 more years before AD would show any symptoms.
He also seemes to be distancing himself from me, there is no affection in any form from him, at the most he might make me a drink after our evening meal.
I am finding this very hard to know the best way to tackle these situations without upsetting him. Is there a tactful way to go about things? I do believe he is showing some symptoms now, he was diagnosed in March this year with AD.
Regards Dee
Today he has rung me at work four times to say he cannot find his bank card, this is his third one in 6 months. I saw it on Monday and have just done a full search of the house but there is no sign of it.
I am leaving work in December and asked hubby if we could have a joint bank account, at present I am paying all the bills from my income, he says no, he wants to keep his own bank account but he is loathe to spend anything.
I have also tried to talk about enduring power of attorney but he is none commital.
I'm not sure how to handle this, at present he does not think he has any problems, he said to me the other week that he had 18 more years before AD would show any symptoms.
He also seemes to be distancing himself from me, there is no affection in any form from him, at the most he might make me a drink after our evening meal.
I am finding this very hard to know the best way to tackle these situations without upsetting him. Is there a tactful way to go about things? I do believe he is showing some symptoms now, he was diagnosed in March this year with AD.
Regards Dee