I have to get medical treatment and will have appointments soon. I have been telling SW and its just ignored ( as i am not counted as needing help). I don't get enough with DP to cover it as this is just the same as when it started. If i take my husband he could wander off or be confused. He even could refuse to go out as this has now started up as the outside confuses him. What should i do? He can't be left.