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@Pusskins what an extraordinary thread you started. Thank you. And thanks to everyone that has opened their hearts. here. How on earth do we all come to terms with what we’ve been faced with? So many brave and courageous people prepared to say it how it is. Thank you all.
I‘m making final decisions about a move for my husband into a care home. What an impossible decision this is. There seems to be no ‘right’ way forward, and COVID restrictions have really made it all so much more difficult. Not being able to discuss this move with the person that is going to make the move is so wrong.
Nothing can prepare you for all the loss along the way. It feels like going down a very uneven bumpy stairway on your bottom Into the great unknown. I’m now terrified of each floor/stage and what it will bring. I feel totally ill equipped, and despite external appearances, am floundering around. That’s why I need to cling onto you all on this forum. Keep posting everyone. With hugs and thanks.