My Father has dementia. We contacted our current social worker as matters are progressing out of our control and abilities. The social worker that we have has referred us to a more experienced social worker and is supposed to be contacting us soon? This evening my Father soiled himself severely and refused, by way of threatening actions, to allow anyone to help clean him. The smell is in the house and not pleasant. I can't think of anything that we can do to get him to let us clean him. We're struggling to cope and, literally, don't know what to do. Does anyone have a suggestion for the above and to also speed the social worker process up?