Hi everyone,
I've been using these forums for advice for a while now and have found them a big help, but this is my first post. My mum hasn't been officially diagnosed yet, but has been showing symptoms of dementia for about 8 months now. Her mother had it so that's why we recognise her behaviour.
My mum started off just being pretty vague and forgetting names etc, then progressed to being really confused about time and dates. This went on for a couple of months and while it was distressing for her, she could still go about her day pretty normally. Then she started having episodes which lasted a few days where she was not making a lot of sense, talking about children being in the house and being scared of the tv. But there'd still be days in between where she seemed fine.
She's recently moved into a flat near mine, and since then she hasn't made any sense at all, keeps getting really tearful and angry and is too scared to leave the house, at least in the day time. The worst development is that she's started to leave the house in the early hours leaving the door open and forgetting to put shoes on. She did turn up at mine so that was a relief, but since then myself and my siblings have been taking it in turns to stay over at hers until we figure out what to do, just to prevent her from wandering off in the middle of the night.
I know this is quite common for people with dementia, and the move seems to have made things much worse, but I suppose I just wasn't expecting it to happen quite this quickly. We have an appointment in 2 weeks time so I'm hoping she'll at least be diagnosed.
I just wondered whether anybody else has had experience of someone going from seemingly fine to quite advanced symptoms in less than a year?
Sorry it's turned out to be such a long post, and thank you - these forums have helped me a lot already x
I've been using these forums for advice for a while now and have found them a big help, but this is my first post. My mum hasn't been officially diagnosed yet, but has been showing symptoms of dementia for about 8 months now. Her mother had it so that's why we recognise her behaviour.
My mum started off just being pretty vague and forgetting names etc, then progressed to being really confused about time and dates. This went on for a couple of months and while it was distressing for her, she could still go about her day pretty normally. Then she started having episodes which lasted a few days where she was not making a lot of sense, talking about children being in the house and being scared of the tv. But there'd still be days in between where she seemed fine.
She's recently moved into a flat near mine, and since then she hasn't made any sense at all, keeps getting really tearful and angry and is too scared to leave the house, at least in the day time. The worst development is that she's started to leave the house in the early hours leaving the door open and forgetting to put shoes on. She did turn up at mine so that was a relief, but since then myself and my siblings have been taking it in turns to stay over at hers until we figure out what to do, just to prevent her from wandering off in the middle of the night.
I know this is quite common for people with dementia, and the move seems to have made things much worse, but I suppose I just wasn't expecting it to happen quite this quickly. We have an appointment in 2 weeks time so I'm hoping she'll at least be diagnosed.
I just wondered whether anybody else has had experience of someone going from seemingly fine to quite advanced symptoms in less than a year?
Sorry it's turned out to be such a long post, and thank you - these forums have helped me a lot already x