My mums partner has been diagnoised for a couple of years now, and was prescribed tablet, which he started to take. He now no longer takes his medication as he refuses to admitt there is a problem. He has done loads of things that could endanger himself as well as my mum ( who happens to be 72 herself). She is unable to care for him any longer, and although i try and advise her of what she should do she ends up in tears,and feels guilty at the thought of putting him in to a home. I have so many concerns over her welfare, i really wouldnt know where to start. Like many other postings,it cant be disscussed in front of him, because as far as he is concerned theres nothing wrong with, but to be honest who would really put tea over their cereal. Im at a loss as how to help my mother without her feeling so guilty. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated, as would an idea on where we go form here. Di.