For over 5 years we have looked after Mum. Over that time her dementia has got worst and the carers now come in 4 times a day, once to get her up washed,dressed, breakfast and medication, again at lunch to give her lunch and change her incontinence pad, again at tea time and then before bed. We are struggling because she keeps having accidents and often finding poo every where, all over the bedroom, bathroom floor in the kitchen.
Although she seems happy in her home, but she is often confused thinking there's children up stairs.
Also I am bothered about Mums safety when the carers go from 8pm at night until 8am in the morning, what happens if there's a fire, would she get out she's always loosing her keys and we constantly getting replacements but next day she has lost them again. My brothers seem unconcerned about Mums safety and still thinks she's fine at home, Is she?
Also if we were to find a suitable place for Mum how can we make the move from her home of 62 years, easier for her. Any advice would be helpful!
Although she seems happy in her home, but she is often confused thinking there's children up stairs.
Also I am bothered about Mums safety when the carers go from 8pm at night until 8am in the morning, what happens if there's a fire, would she get out she's always loosing her keys and we constantly getting replacements but next day she has lost them again. My brothers seem unconcerned about Mums safety and still thinks she's fine at home, Is she?
Also if we were to find a suitable place for Mum how can we make the move from her home of 62 years, easier for her. Any advice would be helpful!