I disagree with your doctor. His responsibility is to you as well as your husband. Go back to your doctor and tell him that you can't carry on like this as it is affecting your health. Ask him to refer you to social services as requiring help. My doctor did this and I found that social services reacted quicker than if I had contacted them myself. However, if your doctor is not willing to do this, then you must contact social services and ask for help. You need help. It is out there, you just have to fight for it.The Doctor says he is only responsible for prescribing the medication which doesn't seem to be creating any problems, there is nothing else to prescribe so there is nothing else he can do. In the meantime I carry on as his sole Carer 24/7.