My husband does nothing now and hasn't for a number of years. The last time that I let him walk our dog nearly 6 months ago he was gone for way over an hour & Ive no idea where he had been. Its not so much that he doesn't want to help its just that he can no longer do the simplest thing. Very sad, but I realised a long time ago was easier just for me'to get on with whatever needed to be done. Life changes unfortunately and just got to roll with it.